Yes, me.Â I am a slacker. I admit it.
A year ago, I was planning to release my first book, “Business is Personal”.
You probably don’t remember me doing a launch promotion on it. That’s cuz I didn’t launch it.
As you might suspect, stuff happened and pushed it out of my immediate view and soon enough, a year went by.
Bet that never happened to you.
It’s still sitting in my authoring software, laughing at me: “You can’t finish me today, bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha-haaaaaa” (yeah, that’s supposed to sound like an insane creepy laugh).
Enterrrrrr theeee excuuuuuuuuusee zoooooooonnnnnne (you can figure out how that is supposed to sound).
The Excuse Zone
See if any of this sounds familiar, even if you have to adjust the facts.
- Before first light today, I headed out to Melita Island to help teach the 2nd part of Boy Scout Wood Badge. WB is an adult leadership course for Scout leaders and I am part of the instructor team.
- The morning after I get back from Melita, I leave for Scout camp for a week.
- The next week is 4th of July week and I have to go to a swim meet that will be a lot about remembering a dear friend who in her last 18 months of life literally willed a small town into getting a new swimming pool suitable for swim meets – all while battling pancreatic cancer.
- Meanwhile I have client work, coaching sessions, blogging, writing my newspaper column, working on my own product development work, doing family stuff, visiting with that awfully cute granddaughter you see in that photo on the blog, a week in Missouri with the in-laws and such right after the 4th, out of town swim meets every weekend till August, then (not 100% sure on this one) 10 days in the backcountry on a wilderness pack trip.
- That gets me to August 16 and doesn’t count other troop activities, Rotary (yes, I’m still club president), a few other volunteer gigs here in town and again, more of that client work stuff.
All the while… it sits there and taunts me. The book, I mean. You can probably hear it giggling.
You probably think “Heck, no wonder you didn’t get it done, with all THAT stuff going on.”
And you would be completely missing the point.
It has nothing to do with how much other stuff I have to do. It has to do with making a choice about the stuff I AM doing.
Each day since the Spring of 2008 when I started “Business is Personal” (the book), I’ve made a choice – several times a day.
These choices were made to do something else other than chip away at the book, even if I chose to do something that might have seemed important at the time.
No one else made these choices. Just me.
A few of my favorite Jim Rohn quotes come to mind:
- “When you say ‘No’, you say ‘Yes’ to something more important.”
- “Learn to say ‘No’. Don’t let your mouth overload your back.”
- “We can no more afford to spend major time on minor things than we can to spend minor time on major things.”
What did you not get done today that you should have gotten done, if only it wasn’t for that “really important” thing you did instead?
Say “No” to the not-so-important so that you can say “Yes” to the really important.
PS: Stay tuned for the book. If you’d like to help with it, take one minute to slide on over to http://www.businessispersonalbook.com and enter a question (someone will win a pair of free consultations, may as well be you).